“It is also important to recognize that a marriage is about two people. It isn't necessary to be publicly displaying affection all the time to prove to others, or to ourselves, that we're hanging in there. Yes, the Gores gave us reasons to consider our own bonds with their televised convention kiss. "But here's a parallel," says Dr. Goulston. "Just as the truest expression of philanthropy is to do it anonymously, the truest form of deep affection is to do it privately." ”