“For me it would be annoying not to have somone pulling their weight. I realize he's older. But on a personal level I don't see it as a positive. My perspective is that he would putter around the house. Mr. Hickey sees it differently. "Her perspective is a little bit warped. She sees me riding in the saddle until the very last day when I drop from the saddle. My body feels the way it feels. She can't really know how I feel and function.”